Ask the Enema Wizard
DISCLAIMER: We are not doctors and cannot legally give medical advice. All the answers below are "how we do it" -- not how YOU should do it. No claim is made about the safety of any enema method below, or of any other type of erotic play. Don't assume that what you see in films is safe to imitate! Please use great caution and, as they say, "do it at your own risk."
(For "Enemas 101" scroll down...)
Q.: What's a "colonic tube", and how does one use it?
A.: A colonic tube is perhaps the most fascinating of all enema nozzles. It's a long, thin, flexible tube that gets attached to the hose. Typically, it's 16" (40 cm) or longer; it can be up to some 30" (75 cm.) The awesome -- and mind-boggling -- thing is that ALL of it can go up the ass!! The ultimate penetration!!!
It's counter-intuitive how such a long tube can safely go up the ass, given that the rectum is only a few inches long, before the colon makes several sharp turns. The key is that the colonic tube "swims" around the bends. Therefore, it can only be properly inserted into a colon already full of water. NEVER INSERT IT DRY! If dry, at best it'll fold up like an accordion -- and at worst it'll poke the intestine uncomfortably and dangerously.
Here's how I do it.
First, a preliminary enema (with expulsion) to "clear the way".
Next, I insert just the tip of the colonic tube (no more than a couple of inches) up the ass. Then I turn on the water and wait until at least a quarter of the enema bag is empty. At that point, I insert more of the tube. NEVER FORCE IT! If I encounter ANY resistance, I wait for more of the water to go in, then I try again. If there's still resistance, I pull it out an inch or a few inches, and re-insert it.
A resistance is a probably a sign that the tube is trying to go the wrong way, as it randomly flutters around in the water-filled colon. Pulling it out a bit, and re-inserting, usually fixes the problem. In some cases it takes doing that a few times. But that's part of the fun! It makes a long insertion even longer...
It feels a bit like inserting a key into a lock in the dark. You "wiggle" the key a bit. Likewise, when I insert a colonic tube, I usually go in several inches, then out a bit, then in some more, then out some more...
If you're a beginner, it's best to choose an extremely thin tube -- the kind that's so soft that you could stick it up your eye without hurting yourself! And don't go past 10 inches or so. Wait until you do it a few times and get the hang of it.
The thickness of colonic tubes is measured on a scale called the "French scale". I have no idea why! But "14 Fr" (14 on the French scale) is pretty thin, and therefore soft. "16 Fr" is more substantial, and "18 Fr" even more so. Around "20 Fr" or "22 Fr", the tube starts getting a fair bit stiffer -- and more difficult to insert safely. For beginners, I recommend 14 or 16. The French scale has nothing to do with the length of the tube; it only measures the thickness.
It's common to have little or no sensation of the enema flow when the colonic tube is deep up one's colon. However, the sensation of fullness -- deep inside -- can be absolutely fabulous!
When it's time to remove the tube, do it very slowly. It's a lot smoother to remove it -- and comfortable for the enema receiver -- if the colon is full of water at the time of the removal. In other words, remove the tube and then expel. If you expel before removing the tube, just enjoy re-filling the bowels, and then "reel out" the tube.
Many of my films and photos feature colonic tubes, of course!
Q.: What is an "Inflatable Balloon Nozzle", and how does one use it?
A.: Together with colonic tube, the "Inflatable Balloon Nozzle" is the most fascinating of the nozzles.
A "Double" Balloon Nozzle has 2 little inflatable balloons at the end. One goes up the butt and one stays out. When they both get inflated, they make a seal around the butthole, almost completely preventing the enema recipient from expelling! Usually, even a "feisty" enema slave who tries to resist the enema, can do no better than expelling a trickle of water when (s)he has a double Balloon Nozzle up the butt.
Moreover, the sensation of fullness from the inflated balloon in one's rectum is simply delicious. It often generates an urge "to go", which further enhances the sensation of being blocked from expelling!
The inner and outer balloons get inflated by means of inflating bulbs, usually attached to the ends of internal air ducts that lead to the balloons. The most typical bulbs are the same as those used by doctors in the old days to measure the blood pressure on someone's arm. Make sure that the air valve on the inflating bulb is closed; otherwise, the balloon won't inflate.
Inflatable Double Balloon nozzles are expensive but well worth the money!
One can also buy single balloon nozzles, with only one balloon (which goes inside the butt), but they don't make as good as seal and are nowhere as much fun. In my opinion, not worth the small saving.
As a safety note, avoid overinflating the inner balloon. The receiver should say, "ahhh" or "wow", not "ouch"! The rectum isn't all that big, and the balloon shouldn't get much bigger than a small woman's fist. I usually give no more than 2 full squeezes to the bulb that inflates the inner balloon. The outer balloon is a different story -- I usually inflate that quite a bit!
Needless to say, I use inflatable balloon nozzles in a number of videos and photos...
"ENEMAS 101" (part 1)
Q.: I just happened to come across the concept of erotic enemas, and I am a little curious. How are enemas erotic?
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Q.: I love enemas, but my partner/friends think that's weird. How do you explain enemas to someone who isn't into them?
A.: The key element to enemas is PSYCHOLOGY.
I like to think of enemas as a "liquid penetration." Or as the "ultimate deep penetration." What penis/dildo could possibly reach so deep??
Enemas can be many different things to different people. The films shown on this site (see All Updates) tend to emphasize enemas as "punishment" or "medical scenes" or "sexual play". But other possibilities exists, too.
- Enemas as medical fantasies
This is an obvious scenario, and probably the first thing that comes to mind to people new to enemas. However, it's by far NOT the only one. If you like medical scenes, we've done several films.
- Enemas as punishment/humiliation fantasies
If one is afraid of enemas and resists them, they can be unpleasant -- just like anal sex can be painful if the recipient stays tight and nervous. Hence, enemas are often used for punishment against poorly-behaved submissives. The intimacy of enemas can also be humiliating if the receiver happens to feel embarrassed about that (maybe because of shyness, upbringing or relationship to the enema giver.)
If you like punishment/humiliation scenes, we have many films on this site that feature them! And we have another site, SchoolgirlSexPunishment.com, that focuses on enemas as a form of punishment.
- Enemas as "sexual/sensual scenes
Enemas can be punishment if one resists them. However, the moment one "accepts them", people typically finds that they "are not a big deal" -- and in a number of cases end up liking them.
Once, I was giving an enema to a girl who was a little resistant. Basically, she was trying the enema to humor me. Meanwhile, I was masturbating her. A few minutes later, big orgasm! I've actually seen this happen many times in real life...
She had a good insight about it. She later told me that at one point she said to herself, "oh, heck, I might as well enjoy it!" That mental transition was critical, and it allowed her to climax soon afterwards.
The #1 difference between a "punishment" enema and a "reward" enema is the psychology of the enema receiver! Of course, reward enemas tend to be more gentle, and involve masturbation -- but the key difference is the psychology.
- Enemas as a tool for scat play
Obviously, not for everyone.
For those squeamish about body functions, keep in mind that enemas can be pretty clean, too. After the first couple of enemas, it's mostly clear water. Also, expulsion can be done separately from the enema action. A mad dash to the toilet -- and the anticipation that erotic play will continue later...
- Enemas as "playful" scenes
For example, using enema expulsion to put out a candle! Or frolicking around the shower with enemas and expulsion.
- Enemas as training for submissives
Often related to punishment/humiliation scenes. However, the goal may not be to punish or humiliate the submissive, but simply to bring them to a state of total surrender. If they resist you, even in a relatively small way, they'll find the enema not so pleasant or easy to take; but if they reach a true state of surrender, they will most likely find the enema not a big deal, or even enjoy it.
If you watch the progression of several girls on this site, from their earlier to later films, you'll see such a transition gradually taking place.
- Enemas as a tool for age play
Most likely, this appeals to people who had, or witnessed, enemas as kids. As a grown-up, it may be a turn-on to revisit a "mum, daddy, auntie, etc." scenario with a trusted partner.
- Enemas as "loving" scenes
For example, a complete "surrender" to a lover, to receive the "ultimate deep penetration in liquid form." Or to be so "absolutely comfortable" with them as to expel in their presence. Or think of the enema as "completely opening yourself up" to a lover, or as "deep intimacy" with them, or as "total body worship."
- Enemas as a shortcut to intimacy
Related to the "loving" category, this is perhaps my own personal favorite... After a person gives a first round of enemas to someone else, especially together with massage and/or erotic play, there can a fabulous "after-glow" from the sudden jump in the level of intimacy. Quite a high! It can feel like that "first sexual experience", or that "first falling in love"... Enemas can also stir emotions in a deep way, and help the recipient truly open up to the giver.
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"ENEMAS 101" (part 2)
Q.: I am really interested to try out enemas! How do I go about it?
A.: Enemas are more about psychology than paraphernalia. I discussed the psychology in the previous question. Here I'll talk about the mechanics.
If the enema is self-administered, I recommend using a bag, rather than a squeeze bulb. (Squeeze bulbs are great with a partner, but awkward for solo play.)
For starters, buy an enema bag from your local store. If they don't carry it, or you're feeling extra shy, you can order them online, from many drugstore companies. Or check the equipment page on this site. My advice for a beginner is to start simple. Plenty of opportunities to get elaborate later on...)
Set up your room in a way that turns you on -- such as music or scents or sexy pictures.
If you got a sizable enema bag, fill up maybe 1/2 of it with LUKEWARM water. Feel the water temperature on your elbow (which is more sensitive than the hand); preferences vary, but I think the optimal temperature is when it feels a shade on the COOL side. "Cool", not "cold." Watch out for the water temperature changing mid-fill! Check often, or just keep a finger in the jet.
After filling up the bag, briefly open the clamp and let a little water out into the sink, to push out any air bubbles (not dangerous, but they can give people cramps.)
Hang the bag no more than about 20" (50 cm) higher than the position where your belly will be. If too high, the jet could feel a little too strong, and the enema happen a little too fast for comfort. (You can also reduce the jet's strength by partially closing up the clamp.) If the height is too low, the pressure might be insufficient to deliver the enema; you might also have water backing up from you into the bag, which may clog the hose.
Coat racks, door knobs, tripods, partially-opened drawers, etc., often work well to hang the bag.
As far as positions, everyone has their favorite ones. You'll have to figure out your own -- which is part of the fun. For a beginner, I'd recommend lying on your back on a mattress.
Small nozzles, like the standard drugstore ones, don't need much lube. Just lick it! If you're a girl, you might enjoy masturbating with the nozzle, and getting it wet that way. However, lube (such as K-Y or oil) will come in handy for later re-insertions.
Now insert the nozzle up your butt and unclamp the hose. Voilà, your first erotic enema! If the water rushes in too fast, partially re-clamp the hose. Once you find the right rate of flow, enjoy masturbating to your favorite fantasy while the water fills you up. (If "nothing happens" and the bags doesn't empty out, try raising it.)
When you feel "desperate" to go (full but not painfully so), make a dash for the toilet or a handy bucket. Then continue masturbating on the toilet and/or go "for seconds" later. Maybe try more water. People can usually take a full bag. But take it easy while you're figuring things out.
Once in a while, enemas can give cramps. Not to worry. They go away quickly. Just rub your belly with oil or lotion, in a large square or circle. Go up on your right side, then across over the belly button, then down and close the loop. This helps move along the air bubbles, which tend to be the cause of the cramps (rather than the water itself.) Did you remember to let the air out of the hose line before taking the enema??
Something else that can happen after a large enema is a feeling of an "empty stomach", like the sensation people sometimes get after skipping a meal. This feeling can be easily confused for nausea, but it's nothing to worry about. The remedy is very simple: just eat something, and it goes away at great speed!
One of the great dilemmas on the toilet (or the bucket, etc.) is "will there be more water coming out later?", or "how can it be that so much less water came out than went in?" It's normal! A round of expulsion, then nothing happens. And then, even 20 minutes later, there might be another round. Or several rounds. I affectionately refer to them as "afterthoughts"! Eating can contribute to bringing forth new rounds. Do not strain yourself trying "to go"! It's not good for your rectum, and in the long term it might contribute to hemorroids. Just surrender yourself: let the water come out whenever it wants to. Finally, do yourself a favor and do not leave the house immediately after an enema! I recommend eating something, and then waiting at least 20 minutes. For extra safety, consider stuffing an adult diaper (or other absorbent materials) in your underwear if you must go out -- unless you are into public scenes...
"ENEMAS 101" (part 3)
Q.: Are enemas PUNISHMENT or PLEASURE?
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As you might know from your own experience, if the enema receiver resists the enema, it's going to be much harder for them. Enemas are an excellent test of whether the sub is truly submitting!
When the recipients resist the enema and squirm around, they make it a lot harder than it needs to be. That may be just as well -- if the enema is meant as a punishment!
But how about enemas for pleasure? That's much more likely in people who go through several enemas over a span of time. Sometimes, those recipients eventually come to accept the enemas -- and occasionally they even like them.
As far as I know, men are more likely to enjoy enemas (or any anal insertion) than women, because of pleasurable sensation from the prostrate gland.
In my films, for many of the girls, what you see is the very first enema in their life! Losing their "enema virginity" on camera, as it were... Not surprisingly, they squirm around a lot, and often find the experience uncomfortable. It's not the enema per se that's uncomfortable -- it's the girls' resistance that makes the experience uncomfortable!
What about films of girls who enjoy enemas? Yes, you'll find here several of those, too.
Usually it's a slow evolution that goes from "I DON'T LIKE ENEMAS" to "THEY'RE NOT SUCH A BIG DEAL" to "I KIND OF LIKE THEM." But once in a while I meet a girl who quickly takes a liking to enemas.
All my films reflect the girls' real-life experience. The enema experience in my films is never staged: if the girl's reaction is to squirm, I don't tell her to pretend she's enjoying it; likewise, if she likes it, I don't tell her to fake discomfort. In the Girls' page, I assign an "enema score" to each girl, indicating how she deals with enemas.
Based on my experience, I'd say that if you're trying to convice your significant other to at least tolerate enemas, there's hope! (As long as that person is willing to give it a try from time to time.)
In my own personal life, I have witnessed over a dozen girls attain orgasms during enemas. Typically, they masturbate, or occasionally I masturbate them, while I administer the enema. Then, bang, a big-O! In most cases, only minutes before they were telling me how "enemas are not their thing", but they were trying it just to be open-minded and to humor me! LOL
Unfortunately, female orgasms are very difficult to capture on film, because filming tends to inhibit real-life orgasms, and I'm against having the girls fake orgasms (or anything else) in my films. However, you WILL find real-life orgasms in some of the films!
Distendend BelliesShort summary: VERY SEXY!
Most enemas result in some belly distention, but if the enema is large and/or the recipient is petite, the effect is more noticeable.
Many people like to see some distention because it plays into the fantasy element of "large enemas."
The distention can be seen better in side view, especially if the person is standing, sitting or kneeling on all four.
In many of our films, we get enticing shots of distended bellies! When they are especially visible, we often mention them in the film's synopsis. Go to the EnemaWizardVideo.com main film page, or the SchoolgirlSexPunishment.com main film page and do a text search for distended.
Q.: Is it safe to do alcohol enemas?
A.: No, unless they're done very carefully! They're dangerous and people have DIED from them. I remember a story in the newspaper about a college student who had died from an alcohol enema during a fraternity hazing...
Why are they so dangerous? Because alcohol, in sufficiently large amounts, is a lethal substance. Not many people know this! Note that I'm talking about IMMEDIATE DEATH, not long-term adverse health effects.
But then, you might ask, why don't people die when they get really drunk? Because they pass out before they're able to consume fatal amounts of liquor. Passing out is the saving grace! But, whereas only so much alcohol can be imbibed by mouth, a lot more can be taken in through an enema -- well beyond the lethal threshold.
So, if you want to do alcohol enemas, be extremely cautious. Never give more alcohol by enema than the recipient is used to drink! Also, never take an alcohol enema alone. If you faint, or if it impairs your judgment, the alcohol could keep flowing into your colon.
When I say "alcohol", I mean wine, liquor and the like. NEVER TAKE RUBBING ALCOHOL INTERNALLY! It's a poison! (There are many different chemicals -- with varying biological effects -- that share the general designation of "alcohol".)
If you give an alcohol enema to someone else, remember that you are in effect "drugging them." That could have bad consequences, especially if there's sex (or even just "kinky acts") involved. It might even be considered rape...
Make sure that the enema giver is a very responsible person, not under the influence of alcohol or drugs. Always pre-measure the amount of alcohol used in an enema. For example, fill up a glass of wine. Never pour from the liquor bottle into the enema bottle, "eyeballing it."
Finally, be aware that alcohol enemas may sting somewhat.
We sometimes have alcohol enemas in our videos.
Q.: What about the HEALTH aspects of enemas?
A.: Many people discover enemas for health reasons. In that context, they are usually called "Colonics." Other terms used include "Colon Irrigation", and "Colon Hydrotherapy."
Many holistic health practitioners recommend enemas for general digestive cleansing or more specific reasons.
Here are some books that mention enemas:
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Elson Haas, MD, "The Detox Diet" (1996) Linda Rector-Page, Ph.D., N.D., "Healthy Healing" (1997) Linda Rector-Page, Ph.D., N.D., "Detoxification" (1999) Skye Weintraub, N.D., "The Parasite Menace" (1998) Bernard Jensen, "Tissue Cleansing through Bowel Management" (1981) Josiane Mignot, "L'hydrothérapie du côlon" (1997, in French) Christopher Vasey, "Manuel de détoxication" (1992, in French) |
Giving and receiving enemas for good health can be a beautiful, uplifting experience. I recommend combining the enemas with massage.
Enema recipients sometimes have told me that the experience felt "purifying", often at an emotional level, too. Receiving enemas is a vulnerable state that often leads to the breakdown of emotional defenses, and a great sense of closeness between the giver and the receiver.
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Q.: What about the safety aspects of mixing enemas and sex, or of sharing nozzles, etc.?
A.: Any time that there's an exchange of body fluids (including unprotected sex, or nozzles or toys going directly from one person to another), there's a danger of transmission of HIV -- the virus that causes AIDS -- or of several other STDs ("Sexually Transmitted Diseases".)
It's safest to avoid body fluid exchanges. But if you want to engage in any activity that involves an exchange of body fluids, it's best to get tested in advance.
Better safe than sorry!
For more info, check out the CDC's (Center for Disease Control) website: http://www.cdc.gov/nchstp/dstd/disease_info.htm
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DISCLAIMER: We are not doctors and cannot legally give medical advice. All the answers above are "how we do it" -- not how YOU should do it. No claim is made about the safety of any enema method above, or of any other type of erotic play. Don't assume that what you see in films is safe to imitate! Please use great caution and, as they say, "do it at your own risk."
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